Luke's 5th Birthday

November 25, 2009

Dear Luke:

Today is your fifth birthday. As I reflect back on your first five years, here are ten things I remember with joy:

1. One day in Ohio, I noticed you had dirt all over your face. I also noticed worms. I opened your mouth and there were more worms! You had been digging in the flower garden, found the worms, and decided to eat them.

2. Sometime in the past year, you decided that the traditional "kiss and hug" before bedtime, or when I was leaving for work, was not enough. You decided to insert a "bug," which comes out as a "bzzzz." So now, before bed, or when I'm leaving for the day, we exchange "a kiss, a bug, and a hug."

3. One morning when you were 3, I was walking down the hallway at about 6:30 and I noticed your light was on. I knocked, entered your room, and you were awake and on the floor around your toys. I said, "Luke, what are you doing?" You said, "Dad, I just have to clean my room!" You are so like your mother! I anticipate you will be keeping lists any day now.

4. Just last week, I was cleaning out a drawer full of mostly pennies. You and Katie helped me. You left the room and returned a few minutes later and handed me a dollar bill. I asked why you were giving it to me, and you said, "I was sad that you didn't have any dollars, just pennies." I tried to give it back to you, and you nearly cried, so I kept it.

5. Our times together at the coffee shop make me smile.

6. Just recently, you have started to give answers during family devotions that indicate you are understanding concepts and listening well. Sometimes your responses are astonishingly profound! I'm hopeful for you, that you will live a life that counts for Christ.

7. Watching you when one of your sisters is hurting is a treat. You don't like it when they are in pain or something is really wrong with them. The world will tell you to "be a man" and be more macho than that. Jesus would tell you, "Sensitivity to the needs of others is actually a great part of what it means to 'be a man.' Renounce the ways of the world, deny yourself, and follow me. I define 'macho,' and that not only includes toughness, but also tenderness."

8. You laugh out loud with a hearty, uninhibited, boyish laugh. I love that. I long for it sometimes.

9. I enjoy having you with me when I'm out and about in the community. I'm guessing you are learning quite a bit just by watching me interact with people. I hope you are seeing me respect all types of people, and that you remember your daddy as a man concerned about the physical and spiritual welfare of others.

10. You love your mother. You should! What I recall with joy, specifically, is how you help her with responsibilities around the house. You usually have a good attitude about working, and doing exactly what Mommy says.

So much more could be said, but these are the first ten things I thought about. I love you, Buddinsky. Happy birthday!

Giving Thanks to God,
Daddy

Laughs for Daddy

(A poem I wrote about Lilly, inspired by Luke 6:21b & Romans 8:15)

Year one almost down,
Not a constant frown.
Grins reveal she’s happy.
Still, no laughs for Daddy.

Trying my best tricks,
Including slapstick.
She wonders and she stares,
I sense laughter in there.

Sister brings giggles,
I just get wiggles.
Brother is like Father,
We both just try harder.

Soon she will crumble,
Belly will rumble.
Sheer joy will fill my heart,
I can’t wait ‘til she starts.

Greater laughter still,
I pray is God’s will.
To take the narrow path,
Is a promise to laugh.

Even if none here,
But joyous laughs there,
Happy will be this dad,
If Abba makes her glad!

Syndrome has some say,
Until that great day.
The curse no longer known,

She laughs before His throne.

My Brain

March 17, 2009

Dear Luke:

You are four years old. You play hard. I love that.

Last night, you went to kick a ball, but you missed. Somehow, you snapped backwards sending your head into the grass and dirt. You cried. I hugged you and held you. Then I asked you what hurt, and you responded, "My brain." I tried not to chuckle outwardly, and then I said to you, "I guess you'll now be afraid to go outside and kick the ball around." You smiled and told me I was wrong, totally mistaken! I'm sure you're out there kicking the ball around today.

I love you, my boy. You bring me much joy.

Warmly,
Daddy

Tears for Faithful

January 5, 2009

Dear Katie:

We have been reading Dangerous Journey together, a shortened version of Pilgrim's Progress, and you love it! I'm thrilled that you are so eager to read more, and hopeful the Lord will use it in your life.

Just two nights ago, we read chapter 6, "Vanity Fair." "Christian" and "Faithful" enter the town of "Vanity," and by the end of the chapter, Faithful is burned at the stake for his commitment to the truth, but here's what John Bunyan writes:

But I saw in my dream that, behind the crowds, there stood a chariot and horses waiting for Faithful, who (as soon as his enemies had done with him) was taken up into it, and wafted through the clouds to the sound of trumpets. So, in truth, he fared better than his friend, Christian. He would arrive first at the Celestial City, and, having been Faithful unto death, the King would give him a crown of life (pg. 79).

I read those words to you, and I couldn't keep the tears in. I know you didn't understand why. I tried to explain it to you, but God's grace and promises in Christ are not precious to you yet. I'm praying they will be one day soon.

That same night, I wrote a poem about the chapter and our experience with it. I titled it "Tears for Faithful," and I really hope you enjoy it.

With Love and Prayers,
Daddy
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"Tears for Faithful"

The fair was full of vanity,
Christian, Faithful, they soon would see.

Locals urged them to touch and love,
But no, their minds were fixed above.

Within a cage they found themselves,
Put there by those headed for Hell.

And then in court, indictments came,
"Faithful!" they railed, "The one we blame!"

Deceit and lies belched from their mouths,
Judgment would fall, there was no doubt.

"Hang him! Hang him!" they made their case.
But worse, they burned him at the stake.

You asked about what just transpired.
I said, "They set Faithful on fire."

But then the story takes a turn,
Faithful would live beyond the burn!

True to his name he faced the pain,
To live is Christ, to die is gain.

So when he died, he did not die,
To God on chariot he flies!

Sorrows, they ceased, and no more strife,
That day he wore the crown of life.

I could not hold my tears in tight,
They fell upon the book tonight.

You looked at me, a perplexed face,
I tried to speak of God's great grace.

The joy and awe that filled my heart,
I pray God soon to you imparts.

Smiles for Daddy

November 3, 2008

Dear Lilly:

You don't smile much yet, but you almost always smile when I put my face close to yours. I really, really like that!

The next few months should be enlightening. Today, we go see a geneticist who will tell us how God designed you, along with giving us some specifics about Williams Syndrome. Next week, we'll be back at the heart doctor to see if your arteries are getting more narrow, remaining the same, or opening up (we are hoping for this one!). In the meantime, we will have specialists in our house to see how you are developing physically. I'm sure there are other events to look forward to, but we'll have to rely on Mommy to know where and when things are happening.

Katie and Luke think you are especially great. Katie acts like she's your mother as she often wants to hold you and carry you around. Nearly every time we are in the van going somewhere, Luke holds your hand the whole time. We even went to the Olson's house in Cameron this past weekend, and Luke held your hand the entire trip up there (50 minutes).

We love you, sweet Lilly!

Keep Smiling (especially for me),
Daddy

Welcome, Lillian "Lilly" Marie

August 19, 2008

Dear Lilly:

I’ve been a little slow writing to you, I suppose (you were born June 29!). Our lives have been quite full since your arrival—you have much to do with that, and we are thankful to the Lord for it.

Your sister and brother have adjusted quite well to your presence. Katie is like a little mother to you, and Luke sometimes gets too rough with your fragile frame, but he thinks you are quite special.

Here’s a little bit of information about your great-grandmother, from whom we got your first name (Lillian... Your middle name is from your great-grandmother on Mommy's side, so you'll have to be sure and ask her about Great-grandma Dorothy Marie): Lillian McGuire was a jewel—humble, humorous and she normally didn’t even know it, a devoted mother and deeply committed wife, the best cook I’ve ever known, and most importantly a follower of Jesus Christ. I consider it one of the great privileges the Lord has ever granted to me to have spent some time living across the hallway from her in Granddad and Grandma Burchett’s home. She lived with them toward the end of her life, after your great-granddad went to be with the Lord. Why did I enjoy getting to live across the hall from her? She was a joy to be around. She was so selfless, and always ready to listen. Oh, and did I mention her cooking? We have such fond memories of her, and wanted to honor her memory by making her first name yours.

I love you, Lilly. I am determined to be a father to you, to care for you, to exhort you with God’s Word, to discipline you when appropriate, to repent and ask for your forgiveness when I fail you, to preach the gospel to you and show you that Christ is my all, to demonstrate before you a sacrificial love for your mother, and to pray for you very often.

Welcome to our home, Lillian Marie Burchett. You are a gift from the Lord.

And thank you, Lord, for another arrow in my quiver. Give us grace and strength to sharpen her well before this arrow leaves the bow (Psalm 127:4-5).

With Joy and Prayers,

Daddy

Your Sister Will Arrive Soon

June 26, 2008

Dear Katie and Luke:

This will probably be the last letter addressed to just the two of you. Mommy's due date has passed, and she is actually at the doctor's right now receiving counsel about the best time to deliver this baby. Katie, your room got painted pink today. I just know that your baby sister will appreciate the color since it will also be her room!

Luke, you had "daddy time" last night. We're going to have to stick together since very soon the girls are going to outnumber us. I hope to teach you how to be a servant leader.

Life is about to change a bit. I'm very excited to see how the two of you react to your baby sister. I pray often that as the years go by, you will influence her toward the Lord.

I'm very curious to see this child's personality. Mom says she has been much more like Katie was in the womb than Luke. I'm sure she'll be her own person. Our Creator is quite creative!

Grandpa and Grandma Noble are in town, and Granddad and Grandma Burchett will be here next week. These are enjoyable days. God has been good to us, hasn't He?

I love you!

With Joy and Anticipation,
Daddy

"Creator of All Babies, We Give You Praise"

The following brief poem was written when reflecting upon Job 1:20-22, Psalm 139:13-16, and John 9:3, and also in anticipation of the arrival of our sixth child (Katie, Luke, and three babies who miscarried preceded this baby girl ). This was also inspired by a dream I had recently in which this soon-to-be-born girl was 9 or 10 years old and she had Downs Syndrome. Lastly, this poem is in honor of Kaleb Schaffner, my sister’s precious boy who has Cerebral Palsy and is a wonderful demonstration of God’s great handiwork. [6-24-08]

Creator of All Babies, We Give You Praise

The parents are told, “Good health is what matters.”
Yet this is purely unbiblical chatter.
The womb is the workshop where God forms and weaves.
With each baby’s design, He’s never displeased.
Creator of all babies, we give You praise!

Clarity arrives when on God we reflect.
See wisdom, see goodness, He makes no rejects.
But what about babies who live only days?
Job says, “The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away.”
Creator of all babies, we give You praise!

So when our baby comes one day very soon,
The craftsmanship of God will exit the womb.
Either ill or healthy, God’s plan we will know.
A child in His image, Christ’s love we must show.

Creator of all babies, we give You praise!

"Daddy, I'm Scared of the Monsters!"

June 5, 2008

Dear Luke:

At 2:30 am a couple of nights ago, I awoke to your cries (and screams) of desperation. I stumbled to your room to find you shaking and sobbing in your bed. I asked you why you were crying, and you said, "Daddy, I'm scared of the monsters!" I grabbed you in a "fatherly" way, softly told you that there are no monsters in your room, and I encouraged you to trust in God, reminding you of one of your memory verses, Psalm 56:3, "When I am afraid, I will trust in you." I then prayed with you asking the Lord to take care of you, and almost immediately you were asleep.

I loved being there for you, holding your three year-old little body tight, speaking words of hope, and praying with you. I am blessed to have this responsibility, and I am praying that nights like those affect you greatly, that truths taught by words and actions will be remembered, and then that all throughout your life, when you are afraid, you will put your trust in the Lord. I will not always be there, but if Christ is your Savior, you will have nothing to fear. Remember these promises:

"O LORD, how my adversaries have increased! Many are rising up against me. Many are saying of my soul, 'There is no deliverance for him in God.' But You, O LORD, are a shield about me, My glory, and the One who lifts my head. I was crying to the LORD with my voice, And He answered me from His holy mountain. I lay down and slept; I awoke, for the LORD sustains me. I will not be afraid of ten thousands of people Who have set themselves against me round about. Arise, O LORD; save me, O my God! For You have smitten all my enemies on the cheek; You have shattered the teeth of the wicked. Salvation belongs to the LORD; Your blessing be upon Your people!" (Psalm 3)

"For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 8:38-39).

I love you, buddy. Rest in Christ.

With Hope,
Daddy

FIRE National Conference, Mt. Hermon, California

May 19, 2008

Dear Katie and Luke:

Last week I spent four days in California at the national FIRE conference (Fellowship of Reformed Evangelicals, a fellowship of churches and individuals from around the country, and even the world, of which our church is a member). It was a glorious time. One of the best parts of this conference is the meals, and I'm not talking just about how tasty the food is! No, I mean the fellowship around the tables. Every meal is shared together with pastors, missionaries, and church members from other churches represented there. So at breakfast, lunch, and supper, I regularly found myself sitting next to different people (some I knew from a past conference) and hearing about their lives, their churches, or their work in missions.

The preaching was excellent as well. I was particularly impacted by a sermon John Crotts from Faith Bible Church preached on Paul at Mars Hill in Acts 17. I came away asking the Lord to give me the compassion for lost souls that Paul had, and Paul's confidence in the power of God in the gospel. Perhaps that sounds "so simple," but so be it, God worked in my heart and I'm already seeing the impact in my life now that I'm home. Here's something else about that sermon: It was preached by a man who seems really humble. He preached it with zeal, but without a shred of arrogance. I got to spend a little time around John the rest of the week and he is the real deal. God is so good to bring men like this into my life, even if for just a couple of days of my life. By God's grace, I am a better man because of it.

Speaking of godly men, I also was privileged to meet a man named Doug Nichols. He's an older gentleman who has done extensive missions work, even serving as the international director for a missions agency. He still carries on a significant ministry all around the world (his home base is in the Seattle area, I think), but he especially spoke to us about the needs in The Phillipines, which are massive. For example, there are 48,000 untrained pastors there. That stirred my heart. One of my dreams has been to go on short-term stints to countries where there are pastors without training and teach them. I am one of the most privileged pastors in the world with all of the training I've had here in America (seven years of schooling, several years of pastoral experience, conferences, etc.), and I desire to share with these men elsewhere what God in His mercy has been so kind to teach me. I think Mr. Ellif and I might be headed over there next summer.

By the way, Doug Nichols was not only a great encouragement (he is a tremendous "exhorter"), but he also has some hilarious stories. Remind me some day to tell you the one about how, when he was seemingly dying of cancer, he stopped off at a Dunkin' Donuts and came upon a man screaming at the lady behind the counter because she wouldn't give him a free donut. It's a classic that I don't think I will forget.

I really missed you while I was away. There were numerous times when I thought, "It sure would be great to have Patty and the kids here." Someday!

Much Love,
Daddy

Daddy's Life At the Moment

April 22, 2008

Dear Kids:

I thought you might be interested to know what's been happening lately, and what is on the horizon, for Daddy.

First, I'm preaching through Titus. We just finished chapter 1 this past week.

Second, I recently wrote an article for the bulletin inserts website titled "When Your Preacher is Not John Piper," and I'm just finishing up one for May (to be edited this week by the CCW team) titled, "When Your Chuch is Not Capitol Hill Baptist."

Third, we raked leaves together in the back yard last night. Katie, you lasted about 25 minutes, then it was time to go in and play Sorry with Mom. After you were in bed, she told me that she finally beat you. Luke, you stuck it out with Daddy outside until you had to go in to take a shower.

Fourth, I'm getting ready to head to Georgia for a few days (Katie, you're coming with me!). I'll be preaching and teaching numerous times. Chris Vinson is the preaching pastor at this church. Your mother and I were good friends with Chris and Jessica Vinson during seminary.

Fifth, we've got some serious construction and remodeling going on at our house. The master bedroom shower was finally fixed today, we think (a terrible leak). The basement is progressing steadily.

Sixth, your mom and I are working together on a letter to send to people who support us prayerfully and financially. It's about finished.

Seventh, I've got an elders' meeting tonight at 6 pm. We will eat together at Planet Sub, and then we'll go over to Borders for the rest of our meeting. I won't be home until about 10.

Eighth, we are all watching Mommy's belly grow, looking forward to the final week of June!

Ninth, I'm just about finished reading R.C. Sproul's little book titled The Truth of the Cross. Excellent! Humbling.

Tenth, I'm wondering where I'm going to fit in time to mow the lawn every week(?!). Most of me doesn't want you, Luke, to get older too quickly... But then I look at that lawn.

Love,

Daddy

Thank You, Lord, for John MacArthur

March 17, 2008

Dear Kids:

At our weekly elders' meetings, we have begun considering Scripture's teaching about what is often called in the present day a "call to the ministry." This peculiar phrase has found its way into the lingo of the church, but what does the Bible actually teach about this concept? We hope to find out, and then somehow share our findings so that others might benefit.

I don't have much to say about our study yet, but we paused tonight and each of us spent some time talking about how we ended up as pastors. As I was thinking about what God used in giving me the desire to serve as a pastor, I remembered something that I hadn't thought about for many years. When I was 19 or so, somebody gave me a book by John MacArthur titled Different By Design (now titled Divine Design), which is about Scripture's teaching on male and female roles in the home and church. I think I remember the Lord using that book in a couple of ways:

1. I was intrigued by MacArthur's carefulness with the Bible. I found myself thinking, "I think I would enjoy teaching the Bible. If I do, I want to understand and teach the Bible the way this guy does."
2. I was confronted, from all of the Scripture MacArthur referenced, with the idea that God has a design for men and women in the home and in the church. I really enjoyed learning this about God, that He was a God of order, and I found myself wanting to participate in His design. This might have been a seed planted that would eventually grow into an aspiration for "the office of overseer" (1 Timothy 3:1).

So, along with countless others who have been impacted by John MacAruthr's preaching and writings (and there are thousands of us!), I give thanks to the Lord for this faithful preacher, and I would encourage you to consider his works for yourself.

Grace to You,
Daddy

Some of My Memories of Childhood Fun

March 14, 2008

Dear Katie and Luke:

Mommy is off at the women's retreat with the ladies of our church, so the three of us spent this afternoon and evening together. Somehow we spent three hours at the indoor pool in the local YMCA this afternoon, we went and got a $5 pizza (and breadsticks!!!), and then we came home and eventually had popcorn and watched a little bit of a very funny 'G'-rated movie. Now the two of you are sleeping like logs. All of this is not typical of our weekly routine, but I am quite thankful God has given us times together like these! I wonder if you will remember the events of today when you are my age?

This got me thinking about something: What are some of my "fun" memories from my childhood that I thought might interest you? Here's a list that is not exhaustive:
1. There is one particular time when I was a little boy, and Grandad and Grandma Burchett, your aunt Vicki, and I were staying in a hotel somewhere, and we swam in the outdoor pool for something like three hours. I don't know where this was, but I still have a picture in my mind of the pool and the hotel that surrounded us.
2. On one other family vacation, I remember playing golf with my dad and my uncle Carlos at Jenny Wiley State Park, and Grandad shanked one and just about drilled somebody on another hole--he did nail the person's golf cart!
3. I used to ride my bike to the basketball court at Morral School and there would be numerous other middle school and high school guys there and we would play basketball for hours. These were very competitive games.
4. They may not still make the rubber ball (pink) that was extremembly bouncy, but I spent hours upon hours throwing that ball against the steps of the house or against the side of the barn and pretending I was a shortstop playing in the World Series making dramatic plays at the end of games.
5. Labor Day Weekend and the McGuire Reunion in Kentucky! Swimming, eating, watching football, and eventually playing golf until our hands were sore. Did I mention swimming? On one of those weekends, it rained hard the whole time, so all of the cousins found this big conference room and made up some kind of indoor baseball game and just had a blast. I also have fond memories of Grandad and Grandma McGuire at these reunions, mainly just their presence. On one occasion, I wore a ball cap to breakfast and Grandad McGuire made a comment about it--He was not in favor! Oops.
6. Eating Grandma McGuire's cooking. Everything she made was incredible, but specifically her biscuits and oats and her chocolate cake were stellar. In one word, "Wow!"
7. Eating my mom's vegetable soup.
8. I always enjoyed going to the barber shop with my dad. This was back when a haircut was affordable! Our barber was Gene Frederick ("Clipper"), and as a boy on each visit I just couldn't wait to get in his container and pick out a sucker or piece of bubble gum.
9. Often when we would get a heavy snow, I would go out and build a fort basically big enough to sit inside. Once it was finished, I would just sit in that work of art--sometimes for what seemed like 30 minutes without doing anything! I remember enjoying the accomplishment and how the wind was blocked.
10. Most summers, we would go to Cedar Point, one of the world's best amusement parks, as a family. This was a great time as a family, and it is where I got hooked on roller coasters! By the way, Mommy and I have been to Cedar Point together and thoroughly enjoy riding these massive coasters even in the front seat.

That's just a selection of "fun" memories. I hope some of them bring a smile to your face.

And now, I'm about to come to bed and try to find a sliver of the mattress for myself and get some sleep. The last I checked, Luke, you were spread out over half of the bed. How does a three year-old take up that much room in a queen size? This should be fun.

Happily,
Daddy

Rock Climbing & Fellow Pastors

January 26, 2008

Dear Kids:

We had a very enjoyable evening tonight as the four of us (well, five including the baby in Mommy's belly) plus Grandpa and Grandma Noble went out to eat in Overland Park, Kansas, and then we went over to see the rock climbing wall at Dick's Sporting Goods. Not only did we see it, but Katie, you actually got to climb it!!! You were doing so good climbing it, but then you got scared--not realizing that if you fell back you would be safe. After we encouraged you, you did fall backwards and for a brief moment, through your tears, there was a smile that said, "This is kind of fun." You wanted down after that, but you told me as we were leaving the store that you thought you would like to try it again sometime (and for only $3, it's a great deal). Luke, you were quite unhappy that you didn't get to try to climb the wall, but once you rode the escalator, and played with all of the different kinds of balls, you were very happy.

Tomorrow night is a special night in many ways for me. I will officially be set apart as one of the pastors of Christ Fellowship of Kansas City. We've been here since the end of April of last year, but I'm thankful that the process for appointing elders in our church isn't quick. There has been a period of "testing" and observation that is so often neglected in the church today. Your mother and I praise God for the time spent at First Baptist Church of Athens, but ever since we arrived here we've been convinced that we are right where we are supposed to be.

The other pastors of the church are gifts from the Lord to me. I first met Mr. Elliff in Athens (he came and preached for a few days), and since that time I've grown to truly appreciate his pastoral heart, wisdom about the local church and the Christian life, humility, and great sense of humor. He is also the most evangelistic person I have ever known. Mr. Elliff's life inspires me to "do the work of an evangelist" (2 Timothy 4:5).

Then I met Mr. Wingerd at a conference in Grand Rapids, Michigan. We hit it off from the beginning. His mind is full of Scripture, but so is his heart, and it shows in his pastoring and fathering. Mr. Wingerd's life inspires me to be a pastor who "accurately handles the word of truth" (2 Timothy 2:15).

Finally, I met Mr. Chrisman. He is just plain faithful--nothing flashy, he just loves the Lord and God's people. I hope people will say that about me someday. Mr. Chrisman's life inspires me to "flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart" (2 Timothy 2:22).

How gracious of the Lord to make me an overseer with men like these!

Sleep tight, and I love you.

Daddy

The Dying Country Church

December 31, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

Yesterday I had the privilege of preaching in a little country church about 30 minutes away from Parkville. I noticed on the "attendance board" that the previous Sunday they had 23 people in attendance, but I already knew it would be a small group because I'm guessing the sanctuary could only hold about 70 people shoulder to shoulder. By the time the service started, I think they probably equaled the previous week's attendance. I came away from that church reminded again of how good God was to give me those years at a "traditional" Southern Baptist church in Ohio. Now, when I go fill in for similar churches, I think I am much better prepared to understand their struggles and encourage them.

I do wonder, though, what might happen to churches like these. This is no exaggeration: The average age in attendance had to be about 68. There was not a young family in sight. The people were very warm toward me and several seemed very engaged in the preaching even as I spent about half of the sermon speaking about the sinfulness of man and the wrath of God. But what's going to happen to a church like this, a church that is struggling mightily to get a pastor, a church full of people who may not live much longer? Perhaps that local church, which dates back to Civil War days, will simply fade away and ultimately close its doors?

When I go into churches like this one, I find myself attached to the people very quickly. I want them to succeed, yet I sense apathy among many of the people in attendance, and I hurt for their souls. Many probably think they are saved because at some point in their lives they responded to a call to come to the front at the end of a sermon "to pray to receive Jesus," actions that are nowhere taught in Scripture and which have given thousands and thousands false assurance of salvation. I sense that the true believers really, really long for something authentic and eternal. They yearn for the powerful, Spirit-annointed preaching of the Bible. They desire someone to unashamedly preach the gospel, call people to repent and believe in Christ, and leave the man-made methods in the past. For these believers, I ache as well because many have endured years and years of preaching that is not really biblical and ultimately fails to proclaim the good news, they have sat through too many church "business" meetings that resulted in hurt feelings and unseemly splits, and they've been led by sheperds that failed miserably to protect the sheep from not only cultural darkness, but wolves sitting next to them in their favorite pew.

What do I do when I'm invited to these churches? I do what I know is their only hope: I preach the word to them, and specifically the Christ Scripture proclaims. The conversion of the lost is dependent upon "the living and enduring word of God" (1 Peter 1:23), and the quickest way I can show the believers in these churches that I love them and desire their best is to preach to them the Bible (see 2 Timothy 3:16-17). A firm handshake, a friendly smile, a listening ear, and a hug or two are all very important, but ultimately they need the Bible explained and applied to their hearts. And sometimes, like yesterday, a few people will stick around after the service to talk more about what God has to say to them and their church. Those are sweet times with dear people. I'm praying God will be pleased to bless what happened yesterday, and I'm praying that their next regular preacher will preach not himself, "but Christ Jesus as Lord" (2 Cor. 4:6). That is their only hope.

For Your Joy,
Daddy

The Days Before Thanksgiving

November 21, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

Two weekends ago I taught in a church in Las Vegas--Grace Reformed Church. On the way there, I had to change planes in Salt Lake City, and the snow-capped mountains were a joy to see. I actually got back quite late on Sunday evening because my plane out of Denver was delayed two hours (that was my layover on the way home) and then my baggage didn't come for another hour! I was happy to see you both resting peacefully, even though you were each sick. Grandpa and Grandma Noble came up from Texas to visit for the weekend, and I'm sure that made you feel better sooner.

I wrote a "bulletin insert" last week on the relationship between the divinity and humanity of Jesus. It's slated to go online in December.

This past Sunday we had a meeting of the entire church at the Heartland, and I preached, so I spent some time last week getting that sermon on Mark 4:26-29 ready. We had a large group of people there--we even had to add a couple of rows of chairs and I think we used all of the tables available for the meal.

Monday night we flew to Ohio for Thanksgiving. We didn't get into Columbus until 2:30 am. Our plane was delayed an hour in Kansas City (yes, that means we were scheduled to arrive at 1:30 am, but the tickets were only $10 on Skybus airlines!).

Yesterday, Aunt Vicki gave birth to Jordan Alexander! We will be headed to the Schaffner's on Friday, and we are all looking forward to seeing baby Jordan. Many prayers were prayed on his behalf (and his mother's) because of the complications with the birth of Kaleb.

Today we had some of Grandma Burchett's famous cinnamon cake for breakfast, and then after lunch we went to Marion for various reasons. I've decided that I'm already sick of the Christmas traffic, and we haven't even gotten through Thanksgiving!

Luke, you just handed me a "note" that says (in three year-old symbols) "I love you Daddy." I love you too, buddy. And Katie, I love you. You are both huge reasons that I am grateful to God this Thanksgiving.

Happily,
Daddy

From Jonah to Particular Redemption

October 11, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

In preparation for the upcoming sermon series I'm preaching, we've begun reading through Jonah during family worship. God told Jonah to go to Nineveh and preach a message of judgment--for fun we point out our dining room window to indicate the direction of that city. But we have learned that Jonah went the opposite direction seeking to escape the presence of God--we point the opposite direction to indicate where Jonah first tried to go.

Tonight we discussed how Jonah teaches that God's purpose to save a people for Himself cannot be thwarted by His disobedient children. This, of course, is not to deny that God uses means (like the preaching of the Word) in the salvation of His people, but to say that a rebellious prophet (or church) cannot thwart God's design to save a people "from every tribe and tongue and people and nation" (Revelation 5:9). We went on to talk about Matthew 1:21, which says "She will bear a Son; and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins." He will save them.

I then mentioned to you how Christ did indeed die for His people on the cross, accomplishing their redemption (applied at the instant they put their faith in Him), and then I asked, "For Whom did Jesus die?" Katie, your answer proves that even little children can learn theology because you said, "Believers." "Yes, that's right!" I exclaimed. "He didn't die for everybody, or everybody would be saved! If He died for everybody, then it would be unjust for anybody to suffer an eternity in Hell. You are right, Katie, He died for believers, He died for those who will believe in Him, He died for the church, the chosen, the elect. " Ephesians 5:25, "Christ...loved the church and gave Himself up for her."

I'm sure some people might think it's wrong to teach such things to children, but I want you to have an accurate picture of God, not an image of God from the minds of men. I want you to know about the One true God whose purposes of grace cannot be thwarted. I want you to know about the holy and just God who has every right to send every single one of us to an eternal Hell, but Who is abundantly merciful in electing and calling and justifying and sanctifying and glorifying even one of us. I want you to know the whole story about God who "so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16). I want you to know the God of the Bible.

So may the sovereign grace of God be upon you. And I plead with you, believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved!

For God's Glory,
Daddy

Anne Bradstreet's House Burned Down

September 11, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

The house of Anne Bradstreet burned down on July 18, 1666. She was 54, and she wrote a poem that I thought you might find helpful some day if you are ever faced with a similar tragedy. The language is a bit challenging, but if you read it through to the end, I think you will be blessed.

“Some Verses Upon the Burning of Our House”

In silent night when rest I took,

For sorrow neer I did not look,

I waken’d was with thundring noise

And Piteous shreiks of dreadfull voice.

That fearfull sound of fire and fire,

Let no man know is my Desire.
I, starting up, the light did spye,

And to my God my heart did cry

To strengthen me in my Distresse

And not to leave me succourlesse [helpless].

Then coming out beheld a space,

The flame consume my dwelling place.

And, when I could no longer look,

I blest his Name that gave and took,

That layd my goods now in the dust:

Yea so it was, and so ’twas just.

It was his own: it was not mine;

Far be it that I should repine [complain].
He might of All justly bereft,

But yet sufficient for us left.

When by the Ruines oft I past,

My sorrowing eyes aside did cast,

And here and there the places spye

Where oft I sate, and long did lye.
Here stood that Trunk, and there that chest;

There lay that store I counted best:

My pleasant things in ashes lye,

And them behold no more shall I.

Under thy roof no guest shall sitt,

Nor at thy Table eat a bitt.

No pleasant tale shall ‘ere be told,

Nor things recounted done of old.

No Candle ‘ere shall shine in Thee,

Nor bridegroom’s voice ere heard shall bee.

In silence ever shalt thou lye;Adeiu, Adeiu; All’s vanity.
Then streight I gin my heart to chide,

And did thy wealth on earth abide?

Didst fix thy hope on mouldring dust,

The arm of flesh didst make thy trust?

Raise up thy thoughts above the skye

That dunghill mists away may flie.
Thou hast an house on high erect,

Fram’d by that mighty Architect,

With glory richly furnished,

Stands permanent though: this bee fled.

It’s purchased, and paid for too

By him who hath enough to doe.
A Prise so vast as is unknown,

Yet, by his Gift, is made thine own.

Ther’s wealth enough, I need no more;

Farewell my Pelf [money], farewell my Store.

The world no longer let me Love,

My hope and Treasure lyes Above.

[From The Puritans: A Sourcebook of Their Writings, by Perry Miller, pp. 577-9]

For Your Joy,

Daddy

Where Are You, Daddy?

August 31, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

How can it already be the end of August? It's been over a month since I wrote you!

I had the privilege of traveling a couple of times this month, first to Oklahoma City, and then to a couple of churches north of Little Rock, Arkansas. I've already noticed on these trips that I really don't spend much time observing the different cultures and geography, but most of the time is spent engaging the people. I love to hear about their stories, their churches, their families, what God is doing in and through them. Yes, there is an occasional trip to see a historic site (like the Oklahoma City bombing memorial), but the highlight of the trips has been the people.

I think this is the right balance. It seemed to be the Apostle Paul's. I can't recall Paul writing to a church and talking about the beauty of the land where the church exists, but we do hear him say to the Thessalonians, "Now may our God and Father Himself and Jesus our Lord direct our way to you; and may the Lord cause you to increase and abound in love for one another, and for all people, just as we also do for you; so that He may establish your hearts without blame in holiness before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all His saints" (1 Thessalonians 3:11-13). Don't hear me wrong: I enjoy the different scenery and truly appreciate memorials, but the ultimate joy is the time with the people.

Katie, your birthday party is tomorrow. You are beyond excited, and I can understand why, but this morning I tried to talk to you about Philippians 2:4, "(D)o not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others." There is an obvious trend in our culture that reveals birthdays, especially for kids, are all about "me" and "my presents" (the same is true for weddings as "the bride's day"). I tried to communicate to you that in order to be like Jesus tomorrow (Phillipians 2:5), you should desire that all of the children that come have as much or more fun than you, and that you should be willing to give all of your gifts away to each friend that comes.

Tonight, I plan on sharing during family worship that Jesus didn't give gifts for the well-being of His "friends," He gave Himself! (Philippians 2:6-8). "Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends" (John 15:13). Katie and Luke, turn from your sins and put your faith in this eternal-life giving Savior who died for sinners and rose again, and then "Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 2:5).

With Ever-Deepening Love for You,
Daddy

Sickness, etc.

Dear Kids,

As I sit here typing on Mr. Eppler's laptop, the two of you are asleep and so is Mommy, and each of you are sick. Mom's illness just started today (sore throat, aches, stomach issues), but your issues started earlier this week. Each of you have had a fever, then an ear infection and pink eye, and now hives as a reaction from the medicine you were taking! Luke, you asked me tonight when I was about to pray with you before bed, "Daddy, will you pray that the itchies on my legs would go away?" I did, of course.

I made a banana smoothie tonight for the first time, but I think I really made a mistake by using organic bananas! The flavor was below average, to say the least.

Mr. Elliff and his sons (Bryan & Benjamin) just arrived in South Africa on Tuesday for three weeks of ministry, but getting there wasn't easy. Benjamin had thrown up before they even boarded the first plane, and Mr. Elliff and Bryan are not feeling good, so I have heard. It seems strange for a stomach flu to be going around in July, but it apparently is as Mr. Wingerd had it recently as well.

I went to the dentist yesterday for a regular cleaning, and told him that I have been experiencing a sore left side of my jaw. He diagnosed me with something common called "TMJ" for short. The dentist, Dr. Evers, said it's almost certainly caused by grinding my teeth at night (causing my jaw to "click" and hurt). Why do I grind my teeth at night? He said it's probably stressed induced. That's interesting, because I don't really feel that stressed out. There's this tiny little fitted piece that goes over a person's two front teeth, to be worn at night, that eliminates the grinding. I think I'll be getting one next week because if I don't, my TMJ could eventually lead to bad headaches among other problems. I'm having to eat and yawn very carefully right now. I think that's why I made an attempt at blending a smoothie tonight.

I'll be going to Oklahoma City next month to Northwest Bible Church to teach a "Childhood Conversion: How Children Come to Faith in Christ" seminar and preach for them on Sunday morning. I've been in contact this evening with a gentleman in a church in Las Vegas about doing something similar. I'm looking forward to the day when I can take one of you, but Mr. Woodward will be going with me to Oklahoma.

Christ Fellowship's new website went up today. I amd still finding it hard to believe that we are here and that I'm getting to serve with such quality men, and that I'm getting to lead such godly people. The grace of God, kids, the grace of God.

Sweet Dreams,
Daddy

My Testimony, and the Day Your Great-Grandfather was Saved

June 11, 2007

Dear Katie & Luke:

What follows is the testimony I shared as part of joining Christ Fellowship of Kansas City a few weeks ago. Also, today is a significant day because this is Granddad McGuire's birthday--He used to always say of the date of his birthday, "It's June 11, and don't forget it!" I haven't forgotten it. I remember sitting in Granddad's living room once and asking him if he was a follower of Jesus Christ. He told me that the Lord didn't actually save him until one day late in his life when he was walking out to feed the dogs (undoubtedly white German Shepherds!), and having heard the Gospel numerous times in his life, all of the sudden it made sense that he was a terrible sinner in need of a Savior. He said that on that day, for the first time in his life, he truly began to repent and rest all of his hope for forgivness of sins in the crucified and resurrected Christ. Grandma McGuire then said, "He's been a different man ever since." Both are now with Jesus.

Here's what I shared a few Sundays ago-

Terrible and Wonderful Truths: The Sovereign Grace of God in my Life

by Steve Burchett

When Jesus Christ died approximately 2000 years ago, He was crucified on a cross as a substitute for sinners “from every tribe and tongue and people and nation” (Revelation 5:9), bearing the wrath of the Holy God for all who would ever turn from their sins and trust in Him. Some seek to deny this good news, but Jesus did accomplish the redemption of His people because God raised His Son from the dead three days after He was crucified. Christ’s resurrection proves that He is the Son of God and Lord of all, and it reveals God’s pleasure in His Son’s sacrifice in the place of sinners—Indeed, the penalty for sin has been paid for all who will, by the grace of God, trust in Jesus Christ as the crucified and resurrected Savior of sinners. I am confident that Christ suffered God’s wrath for me on the cross. What follows is a brief account of the sovereign grace of God in my life.

It was my freshman year in high school, and I didn’t know what to expect as my sister, a senior, gave me a ride to our school for an early Thursday morning meeting of a group of students known as the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. Little did I know that, for the first time, I would soon be reading about the greatest truths in the world. The leader of this group was a large man—6’10”!—and I was a bit intimidated in his presence. Everybody called him “Coach” or “Coach Schroeder” because, obviously, he was a basketball coach at the school. However, he was more than just a basketball coach; he was a faithful witness to the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

Although my memory of those Thursday morning meetings is not perfectly clear, I do remember that Coach Schroeder taught through various passages of Romans. I’m not exactly sure what he taught, but here’s how the Lord used his teaching: I began reading the Bible at home for myself, and specifically I read and thought about the opening chapters of Romans. I can remember reading Romans 1, 2, and the first part of chapter three, and thinking, “This is terrible!” It wasn’t that I thought that what the Bible said in Romans was “terrible” in the sense of “wrong,” I was coming to the realization that I was terrible! Listen to Romans 3:9-10, “What then? Are we better than they? Not at all; for we have already charged that both Jews and Greeks are all under sin; as it is written, ‘There is none righteous, not even one.’” Over a period of a few months, the Lord was convicting me of my sinfulness; I was beginning to realize that I had sinned against the One true God, the God of Scripture, and my sinful attitudes and words and actions numbered in the thousands, even at the young age of 14. God was graciously revealing to me that I had failed to live for Him, that I had rejected His rule in my life, that I was simply a rebel against God which made me His enemy (Romans 5:10), and therefore I became keenly aware that I deserved God’s eternal condemnation (Romans 3:5-6, 8).

But then God revealed something to me in His Word that, literally, changed my life. He gave me an understanding of and a delight for the truth of Romans 3:23-26, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, being justified as a gift by His grace through the redemption which is in Christ Jesus; whom God displayed publicly as a propitiation in His blood through faith.” Just as I read the first part of Romans and remember thinking, “This is terrible!” (meaning, “I am a terrible sinner!”), I remember reading this passage over and over and thinking, “This is wonderful!”, meaning, “Jesus is a wonderful Savior!” Jesus died for sinners on a bloody cross! He came into the world to save sinners (1 Timothy 1:15), and He did accomplish their redemption because He arose (Matthew 28:6; First Corinthians 15:20)! There is a way to avoid the judgment of God, and it is through faith in Christ alone!

These terrible and wonderful truths filled my mind for several months of my freshman year in high school. I specifically remember a time in January of 1991 when I was all alone in my bedroom, and the tragedy of my sin and the pending judgment I would face apart from Christ brought me to uncontrollable tears. What could I do but simply look away from myself to Christ and rest in His finished work on the cross for me? I needed to be clothed in Christ’s righteousness, or I would perish. I remember collapsing to my knees and crying out for God’s mercy. Looking back, I now know that God had given me a new heart, He had granted me faith, the Father was drawing me to His Son, and I became a life-long repenter and believer.

I mention that I became a life-long repenter and believer intentionally, because Scripture teaches that when God saves a sinner, He not only makes the sinner a new creation (Second Corinthians 5:17), but He begins a work of making the saved sinner more and more like Jesus (Romans 8:29). Everything God does, he does well. As a young Christian, I remember learning Philippians 1:6, “For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.” Not only is this a promise that all who are in Christ can never be lost, but it is a guarantee that all whom God has saved will strive for holiness to the end, working out their salvation “with fear and trembling; for it is God who is at work in (them), both to will and to work for His good pleasure” (Philippians 1:12-13). Not only do I find assurance of my salvation in the fact that at as a freshman in high school I began trusting in and following Christ, but I find much assurance in the fact that I am still trusting in and following Christ. In fact, as the years pass by, I increasingly desire to obey the Lord. And when I disobey, I am guilty and truly sad, and that sorrow leads to repentance. Put simply, God has truly begun a good work in me and is bringing it to completion.

Jesus said in John 10:27, “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” I praise God that I am numbered among the flock of Christ, the Good Shepherd. I praise the Lord that in His sovereign mercy He gave me ears to hear Christ calling me to Himself. I thank God for giving me the grace to regularly deny myself and take up my cross and follow Christ. I rejoice that God continues to make the cross of Christ increasingly precious to me. I’m encouraged to see that my struggle to love “all the church,” even those who are a bit annoying, is less of a challenge for me now than early in my walk with Christ. I’m shocked that a sinner like me would love to hear the Bible preached, even sermons that confront the remaining sin in my life. I’m humbled that the Holy Spirit testifies with my spirit that I am a child of God. I’m ashamed that I spent the first fourteen years of my life rebelling against God, and I’m especially saddened that I have sinned countless times since my conversion, but I am confident that in Christ, I am a forgiven man. The truth that I am forgiven in Christ doesn’t make me want to “sin all the more,” it makes me want to lose my life for Christ’s sake and the Gospel’s, and thus save it (as Jesus put it in Mark 8:35). “Love so amazing, so divine, demands my soul, my life, my all” (Isaac Watts, “When I Survey the Wondrous cross”).

I was privileged to profess publicly my faith in the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ when I was baptized in a little church in Ohio in 1997. To any who are reading this brief story of the sovereign grace of God in my life, I plead with you to renounce your sin and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. In the words of the hymn writer, “Come, ye weary, heavy laden, Lost and ruined by the fall; If you tarry till you’re better, You will never come at all.” Come to Christ, and then publicly declare your faith in and commitment to Christ by being baptized, and covenant together with a local body of believers. The local church is essential for all Christians because we need pastors to care for our souls through the ministry of the Bible and prayer, and we need other believers in our lives who will pray for us, strengthen us, challenge us to grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ, and even love us so much that they will call us to repentance if we ever fall into rebellion against the Lord.

“Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly beyond all that we ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.” (Ephesians 3:20-21)

Praying for You,

Daddy

Kearney

May 10, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

Kansas City is now our home. We headed out a few weeks ago, your grandfather drove like a champ the huge truck with most of our belongings (with Grandma in the passenger seat), your mother and I followed with you in the mini-van, and now we are living in Kearney, Missouri, in temporary living quarters. At first everything seemed surreal, and there was honestly a time or two when I found myself thinking, "Oh boy, what have we just done," but God is good and His will is perfect and pleasing--We are exactly where He has called us to be.

Katie, you are thoroughly enjoying all of your new friends, and the other day you caught your first fish in the pond in the back of where we are living--it was a large-mouth bass, but you told me that evening, "Dad, I caught a big-mouth bass." We had a good laugh about that one.

Luke, you, also, are thrilled to have new friends, but I honestly think you would be content if we gave you a new ball every day! You are particularly loving the outdoor environment of our new home, and I rejoice to see you learning Bible verses every Sunday night.

I've been privileged to preach two times already, and I'll be preaching and teaching numerous times over these next several months. Your mother and I are scheduled to become members of Christ Fellowship this Sunday (perhaps I'll write to you soon and include my testimony). Every Tuesday evening, I spend several hours with the elders (they are specifically working on a paper/book on divorce and remarriage), and I'm also becoming well acquainted with the offices and interworkings of Christian Communicators Worldwide. We are hopeful that the Lord will open up doors around the country for me to teach the Childhood Conversion seminar, or even other preaching opportunities.

The Lord has provided for our every need. He never fails His people. "Now to our God and Father be the glory forever and ever. Amen." (Philippians 4:20)

And Amen,
Daddy

Next Stop: KC

April 12, 2007

Dear Kids,

Next Thursday at this time, the big yellow truck should be in front of our home and several young men with strong backs (plus your father) will be loading it up for the move out to Kansas City, Missouri. Mommy and I were just out there this past weekend. I taught the teens (and a few others) of our new church at a retreat that took place on Friday night and Saturday morning. I taught through 1 Timothy 1:12-17, Mark 9:43-48, and Jude 24-25--the theme was "When God's Grace Happens to Bad People." I don't often say this about events like this that I've been privileged to participate in, but I don't think the retreat could have gone much better (other than the constant need for your daddy to be a better teacher!). The young people nearly sang the roof off of the house, and they were quite engaged during the teaching times. I'm praying for long-term fruit.

This past Sunday, I had the privilege of preaching for the people who make up Christ Fellowship of Kansas City. The meeting started with a pancake breakfast which looked so good, but I didn't eat much (I rarely eat much before I preach, as you probably know by now). Then the gathering began with some of the teens and children singing. Eventually, the entire church was singing praises to our risen Lord. When I got up before the people to preach (Mark 16:1-8, especially verses 6-8), I mentioned that I was particularly emotional that morning, and I told them I thought it was for two reasons: (1) Retreats are tiring, and tired people are often emotional! (2) The Truth we sang together was quite moving! I was especially helped to delight in the redeeming work of Christ by singing "In Christ Alone" by Keith Getty and Stuart Townend.

While in Kansas City, your mother and I stayed with Mr. and Mrs. Eppler. What a gracious, Christ-loving, welcoming couple! We will be staying in their apartment for a little while once we get out to Missouri. They see our use of their apartment as an answer to prayer. We also spent many hours with Mr. and Mrs. Elliff. It was a year ago this past weekend that Mr. Elliff came out to Athens to preach. We have really grown to love the entire Elliff family. Time with the Elliff's always includes Godward discussion and many laughs (often at my expense!).

While Mommy and I were away, you stayed with Granddad and Grandma. You were waiting for us at the baggage claim at the airport, and what a reunion to grasp both of you in my arms (this time it was Luke first, then Katie)! That feeling is simply indescribable.

God is So Good,
Daddy

March Gladness

March 15, 2007

Dear Katie & Luke:

You surely will know what I'm about to say by the time you read this letter, but here it is: I really enjoy basketball. I can remember as a boy riding my bike to the playground at the old school building in Morral (where Grandma B. used to teach) and playing basketball with the guys for literally hours upon hours. I guess all of that practice paid off because I was evantually able to "school" Pastor B.J. in seminary.

Today the NCAA men's basketball tournament starts, and your mother and I like to fill out a bracket and compete with each other to see who does better. I keep up with college basketball a bit, she does not, yet she very well may do better than me (that really hurts to admit!).

Katie, we went to see an Ohio University men's basketball game this year. They had "turn back the clock" day and tickets were only something like 25 cents (normally $10 for the nose bleed section!!!). We had a great time together, and you especially enjoyed the half-time show--a lady on a unicycle spinning plates. This evening, I'm going with Mr. McKinney to a couple of high school games, but you wouldn't want to come because I'm confident there won't be a half-time show!

Did you know I was the varsity coach of a boy's high school basketball team for a year at a Christian School in Jackson, Tennessee? That was an experience! I had a neat group of young men, but was surprised at the zeal of some of the parents ("zeal" is a kind way of saying, "ridiculous behavior").

Frankly, I'm glad I have a new team: Starting at guard, a 43" sharp-shooter from Guysville, Ohio, Katie "Babes" Burchett, and starting at the power forward position, weighing in at 30 pounds (?) and also from Guysville, Ohio, Luke "The Tank" Burchett.

With Love (& Go Bucks!),
Daddy

Freezing Rain

February 13, 2007

Dear Katie and Luke:

My writing has slowed a bit of late, but my love for you grows stronger every day. Because of the freezing rain, I stayed home for the morning and worked upstairs. Luke, you don't quite understand why you can't just come upstairs and see Daddy anytime you want, but all was well when I came down, had lunch, and tickled you silly before I came into town.

In the morning hours, I worked on Sunday morning's sermon--Mark 9:43-50. I already preached a sermon on this passage this past Sunday, but I just can't leave it behind. I'm quite confident that the Lord has more things to teach me from this passage, and hopefully those who will hear me preach it again. It is a sobering passage where the Lord Jesus speaks about the necessity of amputating sin, or else spend eternity in Hell. And Jesus is not denying in that passage the doctrine of justification by faith alone. He’s talking about the sanctification that inevitably results in the one who has been justified; He’s talking about the pursuit of holiness that will characterize every person who is truly His follower, and the eternal consequences for lacking this seriousness in your life.

This afternoon I'm meeting with a dear pastor friend of mine named Chris Stewart, and maybe another leader in their church. Katie, I was watching you at gymnastics one night, and I looked up and saw this gentleman (Chris) reading R.C. Sproul's Chosen By God, and I thought, "Now there's a guy with whom I can have fellowship!" and the rest is history. Chris is the main preaching elder for Oasis Fellowship which currently meets in home groups during the week and at a middle school in Pomeroy, Ohio on Sunday mornings. Oasis is a God-centered, Scripture-loving, Christ-exalting, Spirit-led church that the Lord is blessing and I'm privileged to have a growing friendship with Chris. In fact, next Wednesday, I'll be leading a group from their church through the Childhood Conversion seminar that I am now doing in partnership with Mr. Elliff and Christian Communicators Worldwide, and then the following Sunday Chris has invited me to preach for Oasis. The providence of God is sweet, isn't it?!

Speaking of the seminar, I've now taught two (West Union and Portsmouth, Ohio), and both times have been thoroughly enjoyable. There is a joy in doing the will of God that is unmistakable, and I have felt that when doing this seminar. I'm not sure who said that the Lord has been better to us than we deserve, but that individual knew what he was talking about. Indeed, having you as my kids is yet another proof of that statement!

Looking Forward to Baking Valentine's Day Cookies With You Tonight,

Daddy

Grace Alone: A Parent's Hope

My little girl is well into four,
An age when some profess they believed.
At the throne of grace I often implore,
“Early, Lord, from sin set her free.”

Patiently I must wait on the Lord,
For He Alone opens blind eyes.
Consistently I must proclaim the Word,
Praying the Spirit will not pass her by.

And if He comes working conviction,
Her sin, future judgment, and Christ’s beauty she will know.
Then comes God’s sovereign work of regeneration,
Resulting in repentance, faith, and obedience she will never disown.

Some in a prayer or a movement rely,
Yet these are just contrived works of our own.
What is needed is enduring trust in Christ,
And this is a gift of God’s grace alone.

(Inspired by John 1:12-13; 6:37, 44-45; 10:27; 16:7-11; 17:3)

A Father's Compassion

Sitting at the breakfast table, you looked so helpless
Sipping on your O.J., you were stricken with an awful sickness.
I reached out to caress your head, hoping to briefly relieve my boy’s infection,
Then off to work I went with a heart full of a father’s compassion.

Driving away, I began contemplating a familiar verse
The one that says God gave His only Son to reverse the curse.
Soon a thought crossed my mind as I longed to be by your side,
“God the Father sent His Son to die!”

Though He loved Him from eternity past,
In His incomparable wisdom He sent forth this Utter Righteousness.
This is astounding love for sinners like you and me
God sacrificed and raised His Son, promising eternal life for whoever believes.

You will soon be back to normal, confident of this I am
But a spiritual sickness will remain, a sinful heart you inherited from Adam.
Unlike a common illness, this spiritual ailment is infinitely beyond me

Behold the love of God in giving His only Son—Repent and believe!

Poetry Forthcoming

December 28, 2006

Dear Katie and Luke:

As I was slipping off to sleep last night, I started to write poetry in my mind. I put together four lines about Katie at age 4, and then I fell asleep. When I awoke, I had completely forgotten the poem (sorry Kate!), but I had a new desire--write poetry to and/or about the kids!

I think that what has inspired me to do this is my growing appreciation for hymns. Unfortunately, I didn't listen very well in school when we talked about different types of poetry, so for now I'll just try to rhyme. Nevertheless, I just wrote a poem and it was a great exercise because it stretched me to think through how to communicate events and Truth in a different way.

I hope you enjoy your father's feeble attempts.

I Love You,
Daddy

Daddy's Nicknames for Katie

Dear Katie:

200 requests later (sorry!), here they are:

*Cinderella
*Shortstop
*Babes
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With a Smile,
Daddy

Happy Birthday #2, Luke

November 25, 2006

Dear Luke:

Today, you turned 2. I won't soon forget the day you were born, for more reasons than just your arrival. Let me explain: As I was sitting with you in the "transition room," the doctor came and said something like, "We're keeping a close eye on your wife because there's been a bit more bleeding than anticipated." At that moment, as I was marveling at you in my arms, I remember thinking, "Am I going to believe everything I've preached over the past couple of years about 'trusting God in the midst of trials' and 'resting in the sovereignty of God in all circumstances,' or not. It's easy to preach those truths, but you can't really know if you believe them (& Him) or not until you have to put into practice what you profess. Well, as you know, Mommy recovered admirably, and I want you to know that God was gracious to me as I did experience a peculiar peace about your mom in those moments of uncertainty that could have only come from a kind Lord who meets with and strengthens His people during trials.

I praise God that He preserved your mother, and I praise God for you, Luke. Sometimes, I walk into your room late at night when you are already in bed and sound asleep (often in a really funny position!), and I wonder things like--Will he see Christ in me? Will he hear about Christ from me clearly? Will he ever love Christ? Will he love Christ's church? Will he get married? Is he seeing in me how a man is to love his wife? Will he love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her? Is he learning from me about biblical manhood?--and then I fight back the tears (okay, sometimes I don't), and then I kneel down at your bed and pray to the Lord of heaven and earth with gratefulness for your presence in my life and with unusually strong pleadings for your conversion to Christ and that you would live a life that truly counts. Already, at age two, those are some of my favorite memories with you. I'm already looking forward to the next two years!

Happy Birthday, buddy, and I'll leave you with one of your favorite songs that expresses my heart tonight as I write this letter to you:

God is so good, God is so good, God is so good, He's so good to me.

Man to Man: I love you!
Daddy

Please Invite Martin Luther to My Funeral

October 31, 2006

Dear Katie and Luke:

Today is Reformation Day, the day when Christians everywhere should be celebrating what happened on October 31, 1517, in Wittenburg, Germany. On that day, Martin Luther posted his 95 theses on the castle church door, and in God's providence he was a key instrument in beginning the Protestant Reformation as Luther and others, in protest of the teachings of the Medieval Catholic Church, began boldly proclaiming that a sinner's only hope of acceptance with a holy God is through faith alone in Christ alone.

On this Reformation Day, I thought you'd like to know that I'm thinking about my funeral. If I die before Christ returns, I am so grateful that God in His love saved a "stinking bag of maggots" (that's what Luther called himself) like me by His grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone, and this was not a result of my works, so glory be to God alone (Eph. 2:1-10). Would you please be sure that whoever preaches at my funeral proclaims this grand doctrine of justification through faith alone in Christ alone?

Also, whether I die a young, middle-aged, or old man, would you somehow implement into the funeral service Martin Luther's great hymn "A Mighty Fortress is Our God," which is based on Psalm 46:1? Just look at these awesome, hope-inspiring words:

A mighty fortress is our God, a bulwark never failing;
Our helper He, amid the flood of mortal ills prevailing:
For still our ancient foe doth seek to work us woe;
His craft and power are great, and, armed with cruel hate,
On earth is not his equal.

Did we in our own strength confide, our striving would be losing;
Were not the right Man on our side, the Man of God’s own choosing:
Dost ask who that may be? Christ Jesus, it is He;
Lord Sabaoth, His Name, from age to age the same,
And He must win the battle.

And though this world, with devils filled, should threaten to undo us,
We will not fear, for God hath willed His truth to triumph through us:
The Prince of Darkness grim, we tremble not for him;
His rage we can endure, for lo, his doom is sure,
One little word shall fell him.

That word above all earthly powers, no thanks to them, abideth;
The Spirit and the gifts are ours through Him Who with us sideth:
Let goods and kindred go, this mortal life also;
The body they may kill: God’s truth abideth still,
His kingdom is forever.

A common expression in our day is "Life is hard, and then you die." Well, someone recently pointed out that, for the Christian, "Life is hard, and then you live." How true it is that for all whom God has saved, for all who have renounced their sin and have faith in the crucified and resurrected Christ, life is (often) hard, and then beyond this earthly life or at the return of Christ, they live. Why? Because a Mighty Fortress is our God. With Christ on our side, glory is guaranteed.

Is Christ on your side? I pray so! And then, at my funeral, you will be able to sing "A Mighty Fortress is Our God" with hope and joy.

To God be the Glory,

Dad

Christ Fellowship of Kansas City & the Captain of Our Salvation

October 11, 2006

Dear Katie and Luke,

We told you recently that the Lord is leading us to Christ Fellowship of Kansas City in Missouri. Luke, your not quite two yet, so your reaction was not exactly one of shock and awe. Katie, you are four, so you did understand the concept to a degree, but I'm certain what is happening won't set in until we are actually packing up and then unloading in a different place. Perhaps by the time you are reading this, you will have heard some of the details about how God led us to KC, but I want to trace God's hand with you while the information is still quite fresh.

During a personal meeting with Mr. Elliff (he came to Ohio to preach a few days), there were a couple of passing statements made about moving out to KC. I eventually inquired about what exactly Mr. Elliff meant, and then said, "No thanks. We think the Lord would have us stay in Athens." About a month later, I met Mr. Wingerd at a conference, and we instantly had a great relationship... Hmmm? Well, I talked again with Mr. Elliff about moving out to KC, thought through some more details, and your mother and I decided to pray about going out there. Of course, the thought of leaving people in Athens that we dearly love weighed heavily on our hearts (It still does!), but we were willing to look into KC.

Soon, having spent much time in the Word and praying about our future, we began seeking out wise counsel concerning staying or going. We had many conversations with some of the dearest people in our lives, but perhaps the most significant conversation for your mother and me (together) was with Grandpa and Grandma Noble. We sat down, explained to them the situation, I coughed through the first half of our conversation (!), and then Grandpa gave us simple yet wise advice, "You need to go out there and meet the church and consider the ministry." Their wisdom extended beyond that statement, but I remember thinking that it was such a relief that they didn't look at us like we had lost our minds since Christ Fellowship is not "typical" in many respects.

The four of us went to KC, I stayed a few more days than you and your mom, and what a delight it was to meet the people (I actually got to preach for their corporate gathering, also). At first, we thought I would need to get a job and function bi-vocationally, but by the end of the week I didn't want to do that if we went out there. Instead, without your mother's presence, but through talking this through with the Elliff's and Mr. Wingerd, we considered the possibility of, basically, raising the support that we would need to live (both financial and prayerful).

Sounds like a good idea, right? Well, Mom didn't think so--I'm talking she was a 100% "No" to the idea of support raising. I was discouraged, because I really believed that the Lord was directing us out there. I began praying that Mom would change her mind if this was truly God's will. 24 hours later, she came to me and said, "I talked to my mom today, and I'm now 80% with you." I think her mom simply told her, "If this is God's will, the money will be there." 24 hours later, your mom was 100% with me. I don't think I will ever forget when, late one night, she officially said "Yes" to KC. My heart joyously raced, and I remember quietly thanking God for answering my prayer.

We just informed the church last week about KC, and within the past few days letters to potential prayer warriors and financial supporters have been sent. Next week, I will start to call people to see what they think and to potentially set up a meeting. Sometime in the future, KC will be our home, and Christ Fellowship will be our local spiritual family.

We recognize that some people will not understand our move, but the Captain of our salvation says, "If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel's will save it. For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his life? For what can a man give in return for his life? For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him will the Son of Man also be ashamed when he comes in the glory of his Father with the holy angels" (Mark 8:34-38). If your mother and I were to seek the comforts and pleasures of this world, and if we had to live close to family because that makes life easier, and if we were simply content with a nice house in a friendly community with a good church, but yet refuse to follow Christ wherever He leads, then not only will we have set an awful example for you and have wasted our lives, but our personal salvation would be in doubt because what Jesus says in Mark 8 is not optional--He's speaking about what marks every true follower of His (v. 34), and the judgment (v. 38) that will come upon anyone who refuses to count the cost and surrender their lives to Him.

I hope this brief summary finds you, without compromise or the fear of man, loving and following Jesus. Oh, kids, I love you so very much!

Because of God's Grace,

Daddy

Two Screaming Kids and a Funeral

September 23, 2006

Hi Kids,

One of my responsibilities from time to time is to lead and preach at funeral services. Recently, I was fulfilling that pastoral task, and there were approximately 40 people in attendance, including two delightful and energetic children who looked to be about 2 years old each. As I stood at the podium and began the service by reading Scripture, these two dear kids began yelling loudly and running around the funeral home without reserve...

What was I going to do? I barely knew the family, I never knew the person who had died, so what could I do? I just read louder! (typical Baptist pastor, eh?) Eventually, one of the kids was directly underneath me in the podium from which I spoke! It was chaos, my mind was racing, and not a single adult was doing anything about the rambunxious children. Of course, these kids were simply doing what they had been trained (or, not trained) to do, so I was not at all frustrated with the kids.

Finally, after a family member gave something like a eulogy, I stood again to preach a brief sermon... The kids were still be-bopping around winning the ears of the listeners, and I tried in the brief message to show from the Gospel According to Mark how Mark is revealing the identity of Jesus Christ as the Son of God and promised Messiah and Lord of lords in chapters 1-8, and therefore since He is Lord (especially declared by His resurrection, Mark 16:6), we should do at least these two things: (1) God's people should cast themselves upon the Lord Jesus Christ, who loves and strengthens those He died to save. And (2) We should obey the command of the Lord Christ in Mark 1:15, "Repent and believe in the Gospel." Since He is Lord, what He says is not optional.

Through the first 75% of the message, the two little darlings were screaming and running, running and screaming... But then something happened as I got to the second implication of Christ's Lordship--the place went silent! There was no distraction as I shared with the grieving people about our consistent rebellion against God our Maker in words, actions, and motives, and about our need to turn from our sin and trust in Christ, the One and only Savior who died as a substitute for sinners, bearing God's wrath for all who will ever count the cost, forsake their sin, and rely upon Christ alone for salvation.

Why did the kids stop yelling? Well, a correct answer to that is, "They closed their mouths and stopped using their vocal chords." Yes, that is true, but that is not the only answer: Ultimately, the children stopped yelling because God was gracious to those in attendance at the funeral to allow them, perhaps for the first time in their lives, to hear the Gospel (John 3:27). God is sovereign over the actions of men (Proverbs 16:33), even two-year olds. "For from him and through him and to him are all things. To him be glory forever. Amen" (Romans 11:36). May God now open the hearts of the unbelievers that were at that funeral and grant them faith to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ.

I pray this letter finds you trusting in Christ, and I hope it brings a smile to your face.

The Lord Reigns,

Daddy

Jesus Christ, the Model Man

September 9, 2006

Dear Kids,

There are many 'go-to' passages of Scripture that help us define 'biblical manhood' (for instance, Titus 2:2). But as I preach through Mark, which teaches primarily "the gospel of Jesus Christ, the Son of God" (Mk. 1:1), I find myself learning more and more about true manhood and the kind of man I should be because I am studying the Man, Jesus Christ. Of course, not everything Jesus did can be imitated (among other things, I don't anticipate raising the dead! [Mk. 5:35-43]), but while I recognize that He is fully God, I also affirm that He is fully man and the perfect model for what I should be (and eventually will be, Rom. 8:29; 1 Jn. 3:2).

There are actions of Jesus that I must imitate and emotions He expressed that I must pray for if I am going to be both a Christ-exalting father and also a model of Biblical manhood for you. Oh how I pray that you have witnessed this in my life by the time you are reading this letter! Here are three traits I've noticed about Christ the man (this is nowhere an exhaustive list, and I've basically limited my reflections to the chapters that I have preached so far, 1:1-8:10):

• Jesus was a physical man: He touched people (Mk. 1:31; 5:41; 7:33), even the most despicable! (Mk. 1:41) There are different types of 'touches' that in our day and age are absolutely despicable, but the touch of Jesus is the opposite of such filth. The extended hand of Christ was a caring, gentle, unnecessary (He didn't have to), welcoming touch. I realize that each culture and family can have different degrees of what they would think constitutes appropriate touching, but there is something here that I hope you are seeing in my life and am sorry if you haven't--I hope you have seen me kneel beside the bed of a dying 90 year-old woman and grab her hand as I pray; I hope you often noticed, from the back seat, Daddy and Mommy holding hands; I hope you have learned from me that men can hug one another and weep together in an entirely appropriate way (consider Paul with the Ephesian elders in Acts 20:36-38!); I hope you have watched me physically embrace the smelly and neglected... Listen up, Luke: Godly men are Christ-like men, and Christ-like men touch when (and where!) appropriate. And please hear me, sweet, innocent Katie (you just turned 4 last Saturday): Since you are a lady, I'm guessing that you don't struggle to be more 'touchy-feely' than most men. However, I'm pleading with you to beware of any man who touches you in a way that would not honor the God-man, Jesus Christ. Think of it this way: If Christ was in a similar circumstance, and He wouldn't have 'touched' you in that way, then whomever the 'man' is is not really a Godly man (at least for that moment and in that act).

• Jesus was an emotional man: He was a compassionate and groaning Rock--Mark 1:41, "Moved with pity, he stretched out his hand and touched him and said to him, 'I will; be clean.'" Mark 3:5 says Jesus was "grieved at (the Pharisees) hardness of heart." Mark 6:34, "When he went ashore he saw a great crowd, and he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd." In Mark 8:2, Jesus says, "I have compassion on the crowd, because they have been with me now three days and have nothing to eat." All of these verses, and more, tell us that He hurt for people, He ached for their salvation, He had inward pains when they rejected Him, He felt deep sorrow, He even concerned Himself with their physical needs... Real, Godly men are far more emotionally drained by spiritual depravity and suffering all around them, and the indwelling sin that remains in their own lives, than they are about the wins and losses of their favorite team. Life is too precious to ruin it worrying about whether or not the Reds make the playoffs. And I wonder what Jesus would think about the contemporary idea that 'boys will be boys,' which is nothing other than an excuse for dads to neglect their responsibilties in the home as they play video games, or watch 30+ hours of TV a week... Oh to be more like Christ in this area! I don't think anyone can make this happen, but we can pray to God that He would cause such an emotional, Christ-like stir within us.

• Jesus was a stable man: What I mean by this is that He was utterly unwavering in His commitment to His Father; He was rock solid, and even tough. For example, in Mark 6:1-6, Jesus returns to His hometown, but most of His 'old friends' want nothing to do with Him. So what does Jesus do? He "shook the dust off" of His feet and pressed on, "And he went about among the villages teaching" (v. 6b). He trusted that His Father had sent Him on a mission to seek and to save sinners, and therefore even the tragedy of rejection at Nazareth didn't cause Him to question His Father's plan--He calmly and confidently went forward, ultimately to the cross where he gave "his life as a ransom for many" (Mk. 10:45). Have you seen such 'toughness' and commitment in my life? I hope so--I hope you have seen me remain calm when difficulties arise; I hope you have witnessed a firm trust in a faithful God who "works all things according to the counsel of his will" (Eph. 1:11); I hope you could testify, "My dad believed God's promises. He was consumed with God's will. He feared God, not man. He knew Jesus was coming again and that the Lord takes care of His people, and that made Him seem so stable, so committed, so patient even when those he loved misunderstood him. When others were frantic, my dad was quietly confident in the Lord who is Sovereign."

Appropriately physical, genuinely emotional, and thoroughly stable--that was Jesus, and Godly men (and women!) love Christ and increasingly look like Him. Kids, I say with the apostle Paul, "Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ" (1 Cor. 11:1). Where I have failed you as a model, Christ has never and will never fail you--He is "the same yesterday and today and forever" (Heb. 13:8). So renounce your sin and trust in Christ alone for salvation, and treasure Him and learn from Him as you "strive... for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord" (Heb. 12:14).

Because I Love You,

Dad

Thanks for the Laughs, Rap Star

August 7, 2006

Dear Katie,

I love those times we have together when we laugh so hard that tears come to our eyes. Such was the case recently as we 'rapped' into a microphone on your keyboard. I would 'rap,' and then you would start to 'rap,' but almost immediately get so tickled that 'rapping' became impossible. Then, I would start laughing hysterically, and it was utter insanity! It is no wonder Luke just looked at us in a daze!

However, as you know, life has not always been about 'rapping' and laughter in our house, has it? You have known of your father's discipline that has led to tears of a different nature. I trust you realize that both silliness and seriousness are not only appropriate but necessary components of parenting. I'm hopeful that I will always be a dad who spends quality time playing and laughing with you, but also a father who brings you up "in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Eph. 6:4). I'm learning to see that the two are uniquely intertwined: How could I ever discipline you in love, and why would you ever want to listen to me teach you the Bible, if I haven't also loved you through other more relaxed and even sometimes silly ways (like 'rapping'!)? Shortstop, would you please forgive me for the times I have fallen short of this Biblical balance and exasperated you (Eph. 6:4)?

And, by the way, thanks for the tears of joy!

Hoping Mommy didn't secretly record our 'rapping',
Daddy (Aaahhh YYYeeeaaahhh)

Bring the Books

August 5, 2006

Dear Children,

I hope your mother and I have trained you to be readers. We pray that your #1 reading source is the Bible. Katie, the other day, when Mommy asked what you read about in the Bible that day (as if you can read at age 3), you said, "Jesus." Great answer!

Along with consistent Bible intake, I truly hope you are reading other books of solid content. With the Bible a given, here's a list of some of the books that I am currently reading:

• The Christian Life: A Doctrinal Introduction, by Sinclair Ferguson
• George Whitefield: The Life and Times of the Great Evangelist of the Eighteenth-Century Revival, Vol. I, by Arnold A. Dallimore
• Love Your God With All Your Mind, by J.P. Moreland
• Money, Possessions, and Eternity, by Randy Alcorn
• Speaking Truth in Love, by David Powlison

Of these books, they are all excellent so far, but if you would ask me which one to read first, I think I would say the book by Sinclair Ferguson, but then be sure to read Randy Alcorn's book because it is a devestating blow to the idea of "The American Dream."

In Second Timothy 4:13, the apostle Paul says to Timothy, "When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments." Here's what Charles Spurgeon said about this verse, "He is inspired, and yet he wants books! He has seen the Lord, and yet he wants books! He has had wider experience than most men, and yet he wants books! He had been caught up in the third heaven, and had heard things unlawful for a man to utter, yet he wants books! He has written a major part of the New Testament, and yet he wants books! The apostle says to Timothy and so he says to every Christian, ‘Give thyself to reading.’ The man who never reads will never be read; he who never quotes will never be quoted. He who will not use the thoughts of other men’s brains proves he has no brains of his own."

Lastly, here's one more exhortation that might help you to become better readers even today: Turn off the T.V.!!!

Sincerely in Love,

Daddy

8 Years and 1 Day

July 19, 2006

Dear Kids,

Yesterday, I intended to write to you about the 8th anniversary of your mother and me, but then I found out about a church member that is in very poor shape in a hospital in Columbus, so I made the trip to see him. Consequently, my schedule yesterday got a bit changed. As I’m sure you know by now, that’s a common occurrence in the life of a pastor!

So I have been married to your mother eight years and one day. I still cannot believe it. I still cannot believe that she even liked me. I cannot believe that she still likes me. Even more, she loves me. That alone is enough of a reason for me to never, ever doubt God’s grace in my life.

Eight years and one day, and I can say with all sincerity that I love her more today than on our wedding day. I knew then that she loved Christ, but over these past eight years I’ve witnessed her remarkable commitment to living according to the commandments of Scripture, a mark of a true follower of Jesus Christ (John 14:15; First John 2:3-6). I knew then that she loved me, but over these past eight years I’ve watched her die to self for my benefit in countless ways. I knew then that she was a patient and forgiving person, but eight years of my faults and sins have magnified the heart of love that God has given her. I knew then that she would be a terrific mom one day, but what I have witnessed these past almost four years could be documented and sold for the betterment of young mothers everywhere.

What I am saying about your mother is this: If every man on this earth was married to a woman like Patty, there would be happy and grateful men everywhere you looked! If your mother and I are still alive, would you please pray that God grants to us more grace and a deepening love for one another “for as long as we both shall live”? We would be grateful.

With Love,
Dad

Publish B.J.!

July 8, 2006

Dear Children,

By now, you probably have spent many days with B.J. (Pastor Barry) and Amy Maxwell. They are our dearest friends in the ministry, and God’s face was shining down upon your mother and me the glorious day we met the Maxwell’s in Louisville, Kentucky. Like me, B.J. was a Masters of Divinity student at Southern, and our friendship was nearly instant (just like Mom and Amy). Beyond seminary, we spent a year together in Jackson, Tennessee, and then the Lord led us separate ways, but our love for the Maxwell’s, thankfully, remains deep. I know we would survive without the Maxwell’s, but we don’t even like to think about that!

Why do I mention the Maxwell’s today? Because by the time you are reading this letter, if God has preserved B.J. physically and spiritually, his writings have grown quite extensive. So what? Well, if this hasn’t happened already, I want to encourage you to find what he has written, read it, and whatever he has written about pastoral ministry, do what you can to get it published! I don’t know how you can do this (talk to Lydia first, perhaps), but it would be a worthy endeavor for the strengthening of pastors and the advancement of the kingdom of God. What he has written about the church and specifically pastoral ministry deserves a wide reading.

Maybe you think I’m biased because my brotherly love for B.J. has blinded me to reality. Well, let me share with you from some of his writing, and you judge for yourselves:

(1) Just a couple of days ago, B.J. was reflecting on Charles Spurgeon’s devotional on First Thessalonians 5:25, which states, “Brethren, pray for us.” After considering what Spurgeon says about this text regarding the need for people to pray for pastors not just to preach the Truth, but actually love the Truth they preach, listen to these masterful words from the mind and heart of B.J.:

"So, with Spurgeon I plead with my church family: Brethren, pray for me. You deserve a passionate tour guide, who doesn't simply point out the Living Water to you. But, with the Living Water dribbling down his chin, he grabs your hand and races with you to the well for more. And once there, he climbs in first that you can follow him to where the Water tastes the sweetest." (from “Spurgeon on Maxwell” at www.barryjmaxwell.blogspot.com)

Do you see what I see? Do you see how this kind of writing could be a real boost to the weary preacher?

(2) Or how about one of my personal favorites. This comes from an article titled, “Cherish the Pulpit—It May Very Well Kill You”:

"Brothers, cherish the pulpit. Tread circumspectly on the stairs that lead to God’s secret place. We are never so close to the heavenly places than when we tremble before God’s people as harbingers of holy things. We are never more powerful than when from our quivering lips sweet Living Water flows from heaven. We are never more humble than when we speak God’s steely words from fickle tongues. Our knuckles are never so white on the pulpit as when Christ’s brand-marks are red on our backs.

It was to Paul a grace to preach of Christ’s riches to Gentiles (Eph 3.8). He then provides the perfect definition of preaching—bring[ing] to light what is the administration of the mystery which for ages has been hidden in God who created all things. For what purpose must we preach—that the manifold wisdom of God might now be made known through the church to the rulers and the authorities in the heavenly places (v10). From heaven God fills the church on earth. And from the church on earth He unfolds His wisdom to the heavens. All of this according to His eternal purpose accomplished in Christ—the Gospel (v11).

Our Gracious God promises to use only one instrument to redeem sinners and strengthen His Church—the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. That Gospel will be sent by God not through thunderstorms or multi-purpose buildings or live bands or innovative technology or creative leadership. The mysteries of the Kingdom will be unleashed by mealy-mouthed fools loved and equipped by God to uncork heaven's sweet wine (Rom 10.14-15).

As you stand behind the sacred desk this Sunday you do so not to be popular, eloquent, admired, impressive or paid. No, you stand there as an eternal servant of God, vested with the mysteries of God, clothed with the robes of Christ, stewards of the Spirit’s riches. Indeed, God will have orchestrated history that you would open your Bible before His people at that moment.

You stand in a graveyard calling corpses to life, which apart from God’s sovereign power is profoundly silly. And though the grave stones may remain intact and the earth untouched, the heavenly places will shake under the weight of the gospel. The rulers and authorities in the unseen world will have shuddered and rejoiced as the preacher uttered God’s words. The enemy will have suffered yet another blow as he strives against the church. He cannot do otherwise because God’s word is never ineffective."

Okay, so I quoted more of that than I thought I would, but I just couldn’t decide what to keep out, it’s all so powerful. Just to let you know the use of such writing, I often read through this article on Sundays before I preach, and I know many other pastors would benefit from doing the same.

To put it simply, for the benefit of pastors, the strengthening of churches, and the glory of God, please strive to get B.J. published! (Of course, I’m hoping that you both are new creatures in Christ and see this as a worthy undertaking.)

And one final exhortation: B.J. thinks he’s an idiot and, if he’s still alive, will threaten you with a sand wedge in order to squelch your attempt at publishing his writings… Don’t worry about him, though—the wood shed does not exist!

For Christ’s Fame,

Dad

Reflections Beyond a Miscarriage

June 24, 2006

Dear Katie and Luke,

A little over a week ago, your mother started experiencing complications with her pregnancy. We went to the doctor, she had an ultra-sound, and we were so relieved to see the baby's heart beating away (and we could even hear it!). Praising God was easy that day...

But physiological problems persisted, yet not enough to make us concerned. Nonetheless, Mom went into the doctor again "just to be sure." I didn't even go with her this time, thinking all was okay. Then the phone rang in my study, and at that point, I was almost certain about what had happened. Upon arriving to see your mother, my assumption proved true: Mommy had a miscarriage. Praising God was not so easy that day...

Nobody has all of the answers concerning suffering, so I would be foolish to try to offer you a definitive treatment on that subject. I would like to point you, though, to a booklet and a book that have been extremely helpful to me over the years as I have contemplated the Bible's teaching on the subject of God's character in connection with suffering and evil.

• The booklet is written by John Murray, titled Behind a Frowning Providence. This is a very warm-hearted treatment of the subject and a must read, in my opinion.
• The book that I would recommend, How Long, O Lord? by Don Carson, is a bit more technical, but well worth the effort (by the way, read almost anything you can get your hands on by Carson!).

Could I offer two lessons that we all can learn from this miscarriage?

1. In the midst of suffering, we should seek to trust God's promises about His gracious purposes in "all things" (Eph. 1:11), not our feelings. As John Murray writes, "When providences are dark it is difficult to read them. It is the Word that tells us how to view them" (Behind a Frowing Providence, 22). On the day of the miscarriage, I wept harder than I have in a long, long time, which is really the only appropriate response initially (like Jesus weeping at Lazarus' tomb in John 11). But through and beyond the grief are the promises of God that must be trusted, like First Thessalonians 4:13-14, "But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep." It's not that we don't grieve in the midst of adversity, but if we truly know Christ, we should not grieve "as others do who have no hope." Why? Because Jesus is coming again for His followers, and from His people alone "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning nor crying nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away" (Rev. 21:4). I think William Cowper said it well:

   Judge not the Lord by feeble sense, But trust him for his grace;

   Behind a frowning providence He hides a smiling face.

2. In the midst of suffering, God is gracious to His people through people. Your mother and I have been overwhelmed by the love so many people have shown in so many ways. E-mails, phone calls, cards, food, listening ears, hugs, second and third phone calls, wow! In the moment of our deepest despair, the Lord provides the grace to endure, and often He does this through people. We thank God for such a loving biological family whose care for us through the recent trial was immensely helpful. Kids, stay close to one another and to your family, if at all possible. Also, we are so grateful to our church family, whose kindness toward us has been so warm, and so sincere-What a delight to serve a church where all of the "love one another's" of the New Testament are taken seriously!

Finally, I want to remind you of what an amazing and Godly mother you have. She has wept and grieved, but not "as others do who have no hope." On the night the baby passed out of her body, she could actually see the baby clearly (at only 7 weeks)! Later that night in bed, she said to me something like this, "I'm actually thankful that God allowed me to see our baby." I am truly not worthy of this woman!

Grateful to God for the Three of You,

Daddy

I Miss You, Kids

June 9, 2006

Dear Katie and Luke,

You are in New Jersey right now with Mommy for Aunt Brenda's baby shower, and I miss you. Here are just a few things I miss:
1. Sharing my pop-tart.
2. Seeing you wave goodbye from the window as I pull out of the driveway.
3. Luke, seeing you in the window as I pull in the driveway after a long day.
4. Katie, watching you come excitedly onto the porch when I get home.
5. Hugs and kisses.
6. Katie, hearing about your day.
7. Luke, hearing you say, "Up, pease."
8. Family worship.
9. Coming into your bedroom just before I go to bed, seeing you sleeping peacefully, and tucking you in.
10. Luke, hearing you imitate the neighborhood dogs.
11. Katie, hearing you say, "Daddy" over and over until I finally answer you.
12. Daddy time.
13. Luke, wrestling on the floor while Mommy gives Katie a shower.
14. Grilling while the two of you play in the yard.
15. Katie, hearing you sing the Psalm 121 song when it comes on the radio.
16. Kissing your scrapes and bruises.
17. Giggling with you.
18. Laughing at you. (Sometimes, your mother and I have to hide this!)
19. Knowing that I have all of this to look forward to and so much more when I get home in fifteen minutes.

Counting Down the Days,
Daddy

Marriage by Grace

May 29, 2006

Dear Children,

Your mother and I are now at the age, it seems, when we are starting to see more and more married couples we have known that are close to our age (late twenties, early thirties) headed for divorce. Currently, I could list three marriages in which both the husband and wife at one time professed faith in Christ, but in each of these marriages one of the partners has or is committing adultery and refuses to repent.

Currently, your mom and I are quite thrilled with one another. Having your mom as my wife is one of the reasons I have no problem believing that God is gracious toward me! But is our marriage strong because we are so loving toward one another? Have we avoided falling because we are so smart and our friends were not? Well, there is definitely human responsibility involved in growing together as husband and wife, but ultimately the reason we remain and grow together is the grace of God. Amy Maxwell, our dear friend and sister in Christ, has addressed this issue so thoughtfully that I want to provide her thoughts below (these were originally recorded on her husband's blog, "Blind Man's Fancy"):

"Our prayer walk began in its usual way today. I unloaded the stroller, buckled Lidi in and then she and I began our quiet stroll through neighborhoods and our favorite city park. I began thanking God for the cool breeze, the towering trees that give us shade, the soft grass that is wet on our feet, the songs of PRAISE from birds soaring through the air.

I then began to pray for our dear friends and family. Every day I persist in prayer for each of them believing that God CAN restore broken relationships. How I hurt over our dear friends who are teetering on the brink of divorce. I weep just thinking about those we love the most being ripped apart by lies: lies that stem from the very lust of their own hearts (James 1).

But, today as I was pleading on behalf of those I love and lifting up my heart's requests, my Father gently spoke to me! How I treasure those times of prayer when I can hear that gentle whisper of the Father, speaking truth and reminding me of who He is!

No longer do I hear my own babblings and selfish desires. No longer is my mind racing and wandering with each new request. No longer is it me that takes front and center. But it is God alone who holds my attention. It is He alone that speaks so loudly that everything else is silenced and still.

I am humbled.

My Father gently reminded me today that I am no different than my adulterous friends. I am no different from the man who abandons his wife and child searching for a life free of rules and conviction. I am no different from the women who got pregnant out of wedlock. I am no different than the man who sits at his computer overtaken by images of pornography. I am no different from the man who beats his wife. I am that very same sinner.

As my Father replayed the images of my life and reckless sin, I began to see His ever present hand.

What has made my marriage different? What has kept my life intact? It is nothing I have done. It is not because I am "good" enough or that I have the strength to restrain myself. It is only through the provision, mercy, grace and love of my Father. For reasons we may never know this side of Heaven, He allows His hand to raise a bit higher on some, letting them reap the full consequences of their sin. And yet, for others, He keeps them close in the "shadow of His wings" (Psalm 57).

As I remembered my stupid, selfish, ignorant sin, I was overwhelmed with gratitude and humility. Why did God spare me? Why did He not let me rot in my sin and spiral down into the trenches of Hell?

I see a Father who is ever present. He is always with me, teaching me and correcting me. He is a Father who disciplines. Sometimes it may have been a gentle reminder through His Word. And yet, sometimes His discipline has been hard and painful.

But my Father has always been there, always loving and always wise! It is my Father who has been at work in me, not I. I see how He has been at work all of these years transforming me and conforming me into the likeness of my elder brother, Christ Jesus!"

Kids, please pray that God would continue to pour out His grace upon mom and me "until death do us part." And may you consistently recognize your sinfulness and zealously depend upon the provision, mercy, grace, and love of God in Christ both in your lives and, if God provides a spouse, in your marriages.

Grace to You,
Dad

Daddy's (bad, boring, unimpressive, etc.) Preaching

May 9, 2006

Dear Katie,

Recently, you were sitting on my knee, and you said to me, "Daddy, I don't like your preaching." I responded, "Do you think you ever will?" You pondered my question for a few seconds and, with all the sincerity a child at the age of three could muster, stated, "No, I don't think so." Then, as I was about to ask why you don't appreciate my preaching, you pointed to the sky and said, "Look, Daddy, it's purple." Two things come to my mind as I ponder that dialogue:

1. You don't like Daddy's preaching, but you sure do love Daddy! For now, that's good enough for me!

2. I'm not that concerned about what you think of Daddy's style of preaching (although fewer 'ums' and 'uhs' would make for better communication, I'm sure!), but will pray fervently that you will be given a new heart that loves the Gospel I preach. Of course, I can't make that happen-I'll leave that one to the Author of salvation (see John 6:44). I'm reminded of the story Geoff Thomas (a pastor in Wales) tells about an interview some elders (pastors) of a church had with two teenage boys who were seeking to become members of that local church. The preaching elder, Douglas MacMillan, said, "Tell us what changes have taken place in your life that would lead us to believe you have been converted." One of the boys replied, "Oh, it was no change in us. The change was in you, about six months ago, when your preaching got interesting." Thomas used this story as an illustration of what happened to Lydia in Acts 16:14 (the Lord opened her heart to believe), and then concluded of these teenage boys, "Of course it was no change in Douglas' preaching. What had happened was that the Lord had opened their hearts at that time and then the preaching seemed more relevant, and the worship more enjoyable and Sunday was no longer a boring day." Sweet Katie, how I hope that one day Daddy's preaching, as long as it is the Biblical Gospel, will become interesting to you! I long and pray for the day when you look me in the eyes and say, "Daddy, I love the Gospel you preach!"

Until that day, I want you to know that today, the sky is blue.

Prayerfully,
Daddy

Whew!

April 19, 2006

Hi Kids,

What a couple of weeks it has been! First, we had the privilege of Jim Elliff ministering the Word to our church. Do you remember Mr. Elliff? He brought his son Bryan along as well. Of all that we appreciated about Jim's ministry to us (and there were many things!), we especially appreciated his humility. Luke, I hope to be as Godly of an example for you as Jim seems to be for his son. Something else really struck me about Jim's preaching: I have had the privilege of hearing Alistair Begg, John Piper, John MacArthur, Mark Dever, and many other fine men preach in person, but Jim has to be the best I have ever heard at communicating truths that are hard for humans to accept (sovereign election, regeneration precedes conversion, etc.) in a very patient and disarming way. Oh how I hope you subject yourselves to a preacher that declares the Word with passion, a preacher who declares the whole counsel of God, but a preacher without a spirit of 'meanness or arrogance.' Consider Titus 1:7-8, "For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined." Oh how I pray that I am that kind of man! If I'm still alive when you are reading this, would you please pray for me to that end?

Last weekend, we went up to see Granddad and Grandma Burchett, and we also got to see Kevin, Vicki, Austin, and Kaleb (along with other family). Katie, you think Austin is hilarious! It was a fun trip, and then we made it back to be with our church and guests on Resurrection Sunday (which is normally a good thing when you're the pastor!). Luke, you stayed home with Mom on Sunday because you had a fever. Katie, you came with me early, and then I handed you off to Mrs. Bumgarner and Mrs. Parry--two Godly saints, indeed! Where would the church in America be without selfless women like these? It's a scary thought. Give thanks to God for Christian women!

Monday night, your mother and I had the privilege of going out to eat with a missionary couple, and their daughter stayed back and watched you. Time spent with missionaries is time well-spent, in my opinion. What stories! What faith! What a vision of God and His power and grace they have!

Katie, you ended up getting the fever Monday and we think you are finally over it today (Wed.). Your mother is surely ready to get out of this house (!), but she loves to take care of you two. Tonight, we had a very good prayer meeting with the church--many people prayed, and I sensed a real reverence for God and a real genuineness in the prayers.

It's after 11, so I must get to bed. Tomorrow, after many hours of study already this week, I will attempt to write a sermon that is faithful to the meaning of Mark 4:35-41 and at the same time addresses the dear people God has entrusted to my care. I love you Katie and Luke.

May the Lord Bless You and Keep You,
Daddy

Sleeping Beauty

Dear Kids,

Someday, I will write a letter (maybe several letters) reminding you of why I married your mother. Today, I'll just share with you a brief story from the time when I was courting your mom and wondering whether or not she was "the one." I hope this story brings a smile to your face.

During college, your mother and I went for a weekend visit to Granddad and Grandma Burchett's. Mom and I were very excited about each other, but this weekend seemed to be an important couple of days in determining the future of our relationship... You see, this was going to be the first time that Mom spent around my extended family (Grandma's side of the family). There would be aunts and uncles and cousins, a very friendly bunch who truly enjoy getting together for a large meal and an extended time of sitting around chit-chatting. However, along with the genuine friendliness came strong opinions, sometimes heated banter, and occassionally ruthless teasing! How would your mom handle such a situation? What would your mother do in such a setting? What did she do? She slept! That's right, as the evening progressed, and the opinions started flowing, and the banter heightened, and the teasing persisted, I looked over at your mom on the couch and I couldn't believe her eyes-they were shut!!! So much for the pressure of meeting the extended family!

As I contemplated Sleeping Beauty, I thought to myself, "If she can come into this environment and be so comfortable that she's willing to take a nap, maybe there's something to this gal." There was, and there is! God has been so kind to me, kids, in giving me your mother.

With Love,
Daddy

Believing Parents and the Grace of God

Dear Children,

On a few occassions, I have had the opportunity to counsel individuals who are contemplating giving up on Christ and Christianity thinking "maybe I only believe this because that's what my parents believe, and if I would have been born into a family of a different 'religious' persuasion, perhaps that's the way I would have gone," almost as if it is a burden having parents that believe in the exclusivity of Jesus Christ as the only way of salvation. In those situations, after being as sure as possible that the individual's parents are true believers in the Biblical Gospel, I then try to point the distressed individual to the loving grace of God, that though he in fact could have been born into a family that hates Christ, he was born into a family that loves Christ, and how that is clear-cut evidence of the grace of God at work in his life.

"How so," the individual normally asks.

"Because you have been born into a family that, by the grace of God, knows that Jesus Christ is the only way to God."

"How do you know He's the only way to God?"

"Because Jesus said so Himself in John 14:6, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.' To say such a thing, he was either a crazy man telling lies, or He is indeed Lord and therefore the Son of God who came from heaven, became man (while remaining God), lived a life of perfect obedience to God's law, and became a worthy substitute for sinners on the cross, bearing their sins and facing the fury of a sin-hating God for all who would ever repent and believe in Christ."

I continue by saying something like this, "So the way I see it, you have been born to parents whom God has been pleased to open their minds and hearts to see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ! Don't turn your back on such undeserved grace! God, in His immense mercy, has saved your parents (or mom, or dad, or guardian, etc.). Sure, God could have witheld His mercy from them, and you could have been born into a family that has no care for Christ or His church, but consider what God has done for you in putting you into such a family, as imperfect as they are, yet saved by grace. You've heard the Gospel from them, you've heard that the crucified and resurected Jesus is the only means of forgiveness and reconciliation with your Creator, so think of it this way: What a wonder that God has provided a home for you in which that is believed and taught! You should not despise your parents beliefs. Instead, give thanks to God for His massive grace in saving them and revealing Himself through them, and then consider the claims and cross of Christ, and turn from your sins today and follow Him."

Kids, your mother and I are followers of the Lord Jesus Christ. You know this by now, but maybe you wonder 'why'? Was it ultimately because we believed in Christ? Well, we are 'believers,' but the reason we are 'believers' is because God first loved us and called us by His grace (Gal. 1:16). It was an effective, saving call, thanks be to God! As you look back on your childhood, and all of the Truth that we have sought to teach you, I hope you will remember at least a couple of things: Mom and Dad were sinners (that one should be easy!), and Mom and Dad loved this Savior named Jesus whom they said was there only hope of salvation from their sins...

I hear you asking, "Where are you going with this, Dad?" Here: If you ever begin to think that perhaps you believe the way we believe because that's all you've ever heard, and you start to doubt Christ is the real deal, then remember that God has been gracious in giving you parents who have been the recipients of His undeserved riches in Christ. Then what? Consider the claims of Christ yourself and contemplate the cross of Christ and seek the Lord while He may be found, and don't turn your back on God's grace in Christ, but turn to God in repentance and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. Of course, don't believe it just because we believe it--believe in the Gospel because it is true!

And please hear me clearly: It's not that you've been born to great parents (although, in my estimation, you do have a great mother!), but you've been born to parents with a great and merciful God Who has withheld His wrath against them because their sins were on Christ at the cross and His righteousness was credited to them when they turned from their sinful selves and trusted in Christ alone for salvation. God has been gracious to your mother and me in saving us, God has been gracious to you because you get to see and experience desperate, pathetic, unworthy sinners saved by grace through faith in the One who is "the way, and the truth, and the life," and God will be merciful to you if you will rest in Christ alone for salvation.

Put simply, salvation, and all of the circumstances surrounding the rescue of a sinner, is a sovereign work of God, and in His sovereignty and mercy you are the kids of sinful people saved by grace. If you are yet to count the cost and follow Christ, don't turn your back on such undeserved grace! God is the holy Creator, we are rotten sinners, but Christ is a glorious Savior. Call upon the Lord to save you, and He will. And if you are already a follower of Jesus Christ at the time you are reading this, then persevere in trust and repentance until the end!

I love you dearly, kids!

Because of Sovereign Grace,
Dad

An Explanation

Dear Children,

I am quite uncertain at what age you will be reading this, but here is something that is absolutely certain: You are a gift from God to your mother and me, and we are blessed to have you in our quiver (Ps. 127:3-5). God has given you to us, so now we are responsible to give God to you. Of course, as you read this, you already know we have tried to do this, and how often we have failed... Nevertheless, by God's grace, we are seeking to bring you up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord, and we are praying to God that He would be pleased to make your hearts good soil for the seed of the Gospel (I hope by the time you are reading this, you are already bearing fruit in your life for God's glory, but if not, won't you turn from your sin and trust in Christ alone! Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners. He died for sinners just like you. He is the resurrected Lord. Repent and Believe in Christ. Take up your cross and follow Him before it's too late.).

As I contemplate my God-given responsibilities as your father, I recognize that writing to you in a public forum does not rank too highly. My responsibilties to you are, of course, in the home and church through various means that I hope you are quite familiar with by now: family worship, corporate worship, scripture memory (thank your mother!), questions & answers (Katie, you know more sound theology at age 3 than I did at age 25--all "for God's glory"!), "Daddy Time", various teaching opportunities that occur in God's providence, showing you how a man is to love one woman, showing you and teaching you how to love God and neighbor, showing you how to love the bride of Christ, etc. (I know you're reading that and can remember far too many times that I have fallen short, and if there is any bitterness in you as you read this, would you please forgive me?)

So with those responsibilties already established, I began thinking how else I could sharpen you, and how I might be used to instruct you in the Lord even if I'm not alive anymore. Then, just the other day, I was thinking about a scenario that I can't even remember, but I do remember thinking to myself, "I hope to teach Luke the truth about this," and then I said, "Why don't I write him a letter," and then I said, "How about writing a blog to my kids in which I teach them and share with them biblical convictions I hope they embrace, and share with them stories from my life." Thus, Sharpening Arrows was born.

You might be wondering, "Why a blog and not just personal letters?" Good question. I wrestled with that one as well, and decided to do it this way for a few reasons.
1. I need help. Although I am writing to you, by letting others listen in, I am opening myself up to correction. Everything I write, apart from Scripture, is subject to correction (stop laughing and shaking your head in the affirmative!). I hope there will be old friends and new friends who will come along and help me out. Kids, we need to receive correction. "The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice" (Proverbs 12:15).
2. I hope the Lord might use some of what I say to help other parents who might be reading what I write. As I type that, I'm tempted to delete it because I don't feel like I have much to offer, but I'll let it stand. "Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another" (Proverbs 27:17).
3. I'm praying that the Lord might use some of the content of these letters and the links provided at the blog (which are not there yet because your dad is clueless as to how to make that happen) to teach any non-Christians the Gospel, and that some, hearing that "in Christ God was reconciling the world to Himself" (2 Cor. 5:19), will come to Christ.

Obviously, my intention is not to write anything to you 'in public' that needs to be dealt with 'in private.' I simply want to teach and share. Sometimes, what I write will be pure teaching, other times I will share a personal story from my life (Katie, already at age 3 you are wondering, "What does daddy do all day 'at work'?"). Without a doubt, what I write will surely be boring to many, but that doesn't matter because I'm not writing to 'many,' but to you. I hope you are not bored! I love you, kids, and I pray that God's blessing will be upon my writing and your reading, or it will all be in vain (Ps. 127:1).

Sincerely Yours,
Daddy